10 things that are sex nightmares

Sex is bloody great. You can’t argue with that. It’s intimate, fun, passionate, exciting, satisfying and good for your emotional wellbeing. With the right person obvs. But it can also be pretty shite for a lot of reasons. 1. You’re…

10 things every girl thinks when a guy isn’t interested

Have you ever met someone? Liked them? Thought they liked you? Turned out, they didn’t? Then your brain will have been in overdrive thinking about the apparent lack of interest. I know I’m not the only one who drives themselves…

Dating Ennui

There comes a point in any singleton’s journey to Coupledom, where all they feel is an overwhelming sense of ‘MEH’. I know I don’t look particularly ennui’ed here but I bloody am. There could be many reasons for this flirting…

10 things every girl thinks after a date

I wrote a post not so long ago about what goes through our heads before a date. Mainly questioning his attractiveness and why you’re sweating in places you never knew you could sweat from. But the thought process before a…

Catching the feels

As ever on Vix Meldrew, I like to bring you dating terminology that seems to have sprung up in modern times. The phenomenon of catching the feels is basically what us 80s kids call, ‘falling for someone’. But it is…

The Dating Sweet Tooth

With the veritable sweet shop that is internet dating, it’s often a challenge to keep your eye on the Wispa when your body is telling you, you need a Kit Kat Chunky. So how do you know if the guy…

10 things every girl loved at her school disco

Whenever I think back to my prom, or my end of primary year discos, there are a few vivid (horrifying) memories that stick out. Like when I tried to dance to Bodyshakers by 911 and fanny farted or how I…

10 things that go through my head before a first date

I have a date today. It’s my first proper, ‘not just murder documentaries and chill,’ date in FOREVER. Like all my other first dates, I have a certain thought process I go through in the immediate build up. Like all…

30 things I hope for in my 30s

To continue my ’30s’ theme as this was the week I entered this new decade, I have been thinking about all of the things I want to be able to acheive or do more of in the next 10 years.…