Here you’ll find posts all about my life from a personal development aspect. You can find pieces on my relationships, my career journey, wedding planning and just about everything that pops into my brain at 2am after one too many Diet Cokes in the day.

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New Beginnings, Again

2nd September 2019

Hello, hello, hello I’m back! Well for a bit, and then I’m off to get married and have a quick getaway to Las Vegas before being back BACK, but you get me! So as you might be able to tell, things have had a little change up around here and if you’ve been following me […]

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Why We Left London Behind

2nd September 2019

In this post I’ll speak about our amazing packing/removal service that was kindly provided to us by Fantastic Services to review. It was a sunny June morning. We’d just spent a lovely evening at Ben’s Mum and Dad’s house in Kent where we’d chatted about the wedding, caught up on work goss and played many […]

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What Is ‘Enough’?

18th March 2019

Enough happiness. Enough friends. Enough love. Enough Instagram followers. Enough money. Enough roast potatoes. Enough bedrooms in a house. Enough late night purchases from ASOS. And is our pursuit for, ‘enough’ a never ending one? It’s something I’ve been mulling over for a long time, the concept of ‘enough’. Ever since I read Sophie Cliff’s […]

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A Wedding Planning Update

15th March 2019

I know I’ve been promising this post for ages, and I haven’t gotten round to putting it together but I brought you along on every minutiae of every date I ever went on, so it’s only right that I sit here and bore you with every detail about my upcoming wedding, YAY! So if you […]

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Finding Your People [AD]

8th February 2019

This post is sponsored by Yes Studio Designs I don’t know about you, but I’ve never really been one to have, ‘a people’. You know the group you met in Primary school and bonded over Take That and Milk Maid ice lollies? The same group who went to the same high school as you, where […]

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Why Sharing Really Is Caring [AD]

4th February 2019

This post is sponsored by the new Maltesers Smash Cake – and I REALLY didn’t want to share it… It was a hot, summer day, in July of 1995. I was 9 and wearing cycling shorts under my school summer dress even though it was 31 degrees. My friends and I were playing with our […]

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My 2019 Fuck Budget

7th January 2019

In Sarah Knight’s best-selling book, ‘The Life Changing Magic Of Not Giving A Fuck,’*she encourages us to reflect on all of the things, in life, that we give a fuck about. She then encourages us to reeeeaaally reflect on whether those fucks are worth giving, and if not, binning them. I read the book Christmas […]

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New Year, Same Me

30th December 2018

Will 2019 be your year of personal development or another year of feeling crap about perceived failures over unrealistic resolutions you’ve set yourself? It’s that time of the year again. Social media is a total dumpster fire where people show themselves for the fatphobic, mental health ignorant and diet culture obsessed twats that they are. […]

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